沟通，有沟就会通

不管是在什么关系都好，

只要关系到人与人的联系，

沟通，

扮演着非常重要的角色。

如果什么都收在心里，

别人不是你肚子里的一条虫，

他们永远都不知道你心里在想什么。

有人告诉我，

隐瞒，

是一段感情的死穴。

沟通，

有沟，就会通了。

一段关系也是一样。

要长长久久的走下去，

唯一的方法就是要时常沟通。

通过沟通，

我们更了解对方，

我们更明白对方，

我们更谅解对方，

而不是，

要对方一直猜测我们的想法，

最后，

反而会让对方胡思乱想，

Deborah Tannen: “Life is a matter of dealing with other people, in little matters and cataclysmic ones, and that means a series of conversations.”

我们的生命就是与别人打交道，不管是大事或小事，我们都需要沟通。。

Love the love songs

Love songs wasn't one of my favourite thing to listen to when I was in my teenagers era thanks to my music teacher in primary school. 

Anyway, I start listening to songs and even start singing karaoke with friends during my uni years. 

Just last year, I was touched by love song sang by my beloved boyfriend and it was Richie Ren's 

爱的路上只有我和你 and that is how we start our journey of love together since then.

Below are the rest of the songs that my darling shared to me via fb. Really touched~~ ^^

Chris Brown - With You

Nothing's gonna change my love for you

Lady Antebellum - Need You Now

Savage Garden - I knew I loved you

林子祥 - 分分鐘需要你

Boney M : Rivers of Babylon

Ne-Yo - Because Of You

Michael Jackson - Hold My Hand Duet ft. Akon

十指緊扣 - 張智霖

< Sometimes, you can't explain what you're feeling, and then you hear a song that sums up your entire situation >

Life's like thunder and lightning

Nowadays, the day always end with heavy downpour with the combination of the electromagnetic sparks and sonic shock wave that lead to as if the end is coming.

And my mood is almost the same as the weather these few days.

Pressure rushing in... ....

1) work - All BM teacher especially primary 1 in my school are facing great pressure. I'm taking two classes  so double pressure I'll be facing. Thanks to the government for the new policy given and more paper works to be done in a short period of time! 

2) academic - Exam is around the corner but yet I'm not ready for another two papers. How I wish I can concentrate and memorise but I couldn't do that because these two papers need logical thinking! Everytime thinking of 3.00 pointer to pass the paper, humongous pressure will be rushing into my brain!

3) friends and relationships - I'm not sure is it my problem or my communication skill is going down the drain. I'm not doing well with communicating with my friends and friends of mine kept making fun of ... I rather not to say to prevent from thinking of the bad memories again!

I am just like the person in the plastic bag that is lacking of oxygen to breathe! 

Now the only thing I can look forward to is the end of my another two exam papers...

Wish me luck, and yes, i really need a lot of luck for exams.  

Warm-hearted day ~ :D

Life might be a lot of ups and downs,

Life might be full of sorrows and sadness,

Life might be not as easy as we think it is,

But,

even if it's stormy and nasty outside,

even if we're surrounded by people with icy Arctic hearts,

we know that there are still people,

continue to radiate sunshine and warmth.

They are the great people,

that are sensitive and caring to us,

and sent us a big warmth hug to 

console our broken heart.

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             After two weeks of being a runner for sis and bro-in-law's house, after two weeks of panicking over the death of the poor little gold fish who was being treasured so much by my bro-in-law, finally the couple is back and I so love all the presents so much. I felt that my hard work(for me consider hard) is appreciated.  A sudden warm inside my heart. Thanks sis. ^^

             

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              "Kind words are like pure lotus, mean words are like poisonous snakes". This is one of the famous saying in tzu-chi. It is so meaningful that words really portrait a person's personality. 

                I was feeling a bit frustrated of people who judge people by the look. In English we always say "Never judge a book by its cover". Okay, I know I'm in a bigger size compare to other beautiful girls out there, but so what? Does it mean that if I am slim and skinny, I'll be able to have good personality, good life, good career? And furthermore, it is so mean to criticize your friend's gf in front of your friend. Those people who judge people by their appearance is going to end up as a big failure in life.

               But I was so glad that my dear bf supported me and defended me in front of his friend. He was angry but still, he calmly told his friend that ...

"Beauty is skin deep, if you only love someone for her appearance, you do not love her wholeheartedly, you'll only love her beauty, but not her heart. Beauty will surely fade one day but the true heart will always remain there. I love her for who she is, not by how she look"

               I was so touched and how I wish I can hug my bf instantly. I am indeed very touched to know that my bf is so matured in this relationship. This is the best present I have for our fourth month anniversary. 


               Today is 9 April 2012 marking the 4th month of us getting together in a relationship and we promise each other that our relationship will only get stronger. As our journey grows stronger, I'm sure that our love will become everlasting.

Happy fourth month anniversary darling~  永远爱你                 

Dreams. . .

A Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Makes (English) from Cinderella

A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're fast asleep
In dreams you lose your heartaches
Whatever you wish for, you keep

Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbow will come smiling thru
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
the dream that you wish will come true 

Although the life now is tough, 

even we think that we cannot cope with it, 

but do always remember our dreams,

to achieve our dreams,

we will need to get through these.

Once we get through these, 

rainbow will appear after rain,

and our dreams will definitely come true

one day...

Darling dear,

I know you, I walked with you once upon a dream,

I know you, the gleam in your eyes is so familiar a-gleam,

Yet I know it's true that visions are seldom all they seem,

But if I know you, I know what you do,

You'll love at once, the way you did once upon a dream. ^^

Once Upon a Dream - Sleeping Beauty

Movies movies movies :D

For the past four days in Penang, we watched 3 movies, to release our stress and to spend time together. ^^ First movie,  Mr and Mrs Gambler.

This is a comedy about a guy and a lady who really love gamble and how gamble linked two of them together and end up married and have kids. Quite a funny movie for you to laugh whole night. :)


Second movie, we've changed from comedy to HORROR! It's been a long long time since I watch horror movie in the cinema but this was a meaningful show but still it shocked me a few times. > < 

Second movie, The Woman in Black.

This story is not about Harry Potter even though you can see Daniel Radcliffe here! He has turned into a married lawyer with a 3 years old son. He is a lawyer who were being sent to a small village to deal with a will of a lady from an old mansion. The lady commit suicide because she lost her child and in the story she wanted all the children in the village to 'follow' her 'down'. Now I feel creepy...



Let us move on to the third movie. This is a sci-fi and action movie. Not bad ^^

John Carter

This story is about an adventurer named John Carter ended up in another planet and meet with aliens and the love of his life. :)

By the way, my bf and I went to 1st Avenue, Penang to watch this movie and that was the first time we watched in the beaniplex/ beanbag. :)

It only cost RM30 for a pair, means only RM15 per person! CHEAP! The usual couple seat I buy in KL were like RM 17-RM19 per person!

In the beaniplex, we can snuggle comfortably into the soft, cushy beanbag seats that come in pairs, for a cosy and relaxed viewing experience and I even slept in my bf's arm as it was too comfortable. :P

I didn't get to take photo but this is roughly how it looks like. :)




MORE NICE MOVIES COMING SOON IN THE NEXT FEW MONTHS! CAN'T WAIT ^^

Love is... ...

Love is not finding a hand that perfectly fits yours..
It's finding the one who is willing to hold your hand no matter how unfit it may be ♥

~ This is the best photo taken and I love it very very much! Thanks to my dear who candidly took this picture when we were walking by the seaside.

~ I had a blast spending time with my dear at Penang last week from 9th to 12th of March 2012. These are the photos from my fb album. :)
 https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10150611449953951.391601.502193950&type=3

~Looking forward in taking more meaningful photos in the time to come. <3

February~~ love season 爱 的 季节

幸福是什么？

幸福就是牵着一双想牵的手，一起走过繁华喧嚣，一起守候寂寞孤独；

就是陪着一个想陪的人，高兴时一起笑，伤悲时一起哭；

就是拥有一颗想拥有的心，重复无聊的日子不乏味，做着相同的事情不枯燥……

心中有爱就有幸福，幸福就在当初的承诺中，就在当下的践行中，就在今后的回忆里。

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This is a belated Valentine's post but better late than never. :P

This year's 14th of February was a weekday,Tuesday. No celebration for us on that day the least we can do is to chat through the phone. :)

On the 17th of February, he came straight away to me after finish working. Though by the time he reached was already 18th of February, but I was still very touched by his effort to meet me and to celebrate our very first Valentine.

On the 18th of February, we finally changed our digi prepaid plan to digi postpaid plan. I'm his supplementary line so free calls between the both of us. :D We had our lovely lunch at Times Square Shabu-Shabu. Our first steamboat together. I really had a great time together with him steamboat-ing. :) At night, we had a romantic night at Wangsa Walk TGV cinema watching The Wedding Diary ( 结婚那件事).

Recalling back from the time we started to get together, this is our 3rd movie. First was 小英雄大故事 and second was Alvin and the chipmunks. This paragraph is just letting me to drop down the movies we watched b4 so I can remember. :P

The most touching part of this celebration is the gift from him. He bought a 3D puzzle and used nearly 3 hours to make it into a swan. It was so beautiful and I love it so so much!

 I super duperly love this swan so much! Treasure it! :)

These are the gift I got for my love. :)

Our first time travel around in monorail. Lovely time!

~ 华华爱人， 好想永远牵着你的手，幸福道路一起走；好想亲亲你的脸，我们相伴到永远。:)  ~

My nightmare

Although the incident already passed over a year, and I found my new love, but 13th of February is already a nightmare to me.

It's been a year, but I can still remember vividly everything that happened. The actions being done, the words being poured, the non-stop tears rolling down on the cheeks. I can still feel as if the knife of words is still stabbing into my heart, breaking my heart into pieces. The no-turning back sentences lead me to dead end. My world turned from a colourful world into a stormy with lightning strikes.

All the loves, all the effort done in maintaining the relationships gone in the lightning strikes. I felt so abandoned. I felt that I am such a useless person. I felt that I am doing something that is not worth doing! I felt myself so stupid for getting myself into that type of relationship when my ex didn't think of me in the future!

难道我就是时常被遗弃的那一个？
难道我就要那样被人玩弄吗？
难道我就没有当一位女人的价值吗？
难道。。难道。。

Did you know I was hurt badly by you?
Did you know you made my Valentine's Eve a nightmare? a disaster?

But I want to thank you for pushing me away,
so I will be able to find my true lover,
but can you get out from my mind?
can you bring away the bad memories that happened?!

我感到很内疚，很内疚，
我已经有了爱人华华了，
我为何还会有这个心情呢？

好讨厌自己。。。

对不起，华华。。现在你就是我的一切，请原谅我放不下之前的阴影。。。给我多一点时间，我相信有一天，我能把这件事情淡忘了。。但恳求你给我时间。。爱你。。

Time really flies...

As I was still spending my time without doing anything fruitful, CNY is already over. My masters assignments deadline in a month time, everything seems to be rushing in after the CNY hols.
Anyway, let me recall back to the time before CNY.

a) my dear meeting my family~ 17/1/2012

Happily meeting my family members :)

 He even accompanied me to my besties Eugenie's wedding dinner. :D









b) Chinese New Year in Kuching, Sarawak(my birthplace)

playing with the real fire crackers!

very very long fire crackers! ~scary!~

air asia flight food~ quite nice right? thanks to the government for free air ticket to Sarawakian who works in 

West Malaysia. :P

c) Visit to Dong Zen Temple

The lighting there were awesome. The peacock behind me looks so magnificient! :)

d) Cameron Highland family trip

Love the flowers ^^

Hope I'll always be a sunflower that will always be so cheerful and strong! :)

~Signing off for now.....