I love my family

“When everything goes to hell, the people who stand by you without flinching -- they are your family. ” ― Jim Butcher

I love this quote so much~ Especially throughout these few weeks when I had relationship problems and they really support me to the max.

And now my parents just flew and left me for two weeks vacation. But before they left, mum cooked meals enough for me throughout the two weeks and freeze the foods at the freezer and I will only need to reheat to have my meal. I am really so touched...

I only need to reheat it in the microwave before eating. :)

Mum even labelled all the foods! :D 

 Thanks to my dearie sister and brother-in-law who accompanied me to fix my car last night and even waited for nearly two hours there. Really appreciate the both of you.


Throughout these period of time, I knew that family are always be there for me no matter what happens. Friends might be there to help you but they are not blood related to you and they will not bother to be as caring as family members used to be.

I really love another quote below:

"Be grateful for the home you have, knowing that at this moment, all you have is all you need.” Sarah Ban Breathnach

Do you care whether your good deed is appreciated or not?

We usually seek an answer to the moral riddle:
"If a good deed is done, and no one expresses gratitude for it, is it still a good deed?"
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The picture below showed what is my current mood now. I'm feeling so heart-broken that thousands of lightning are striking into my hearts. But, let me answer the question above first...

As for me, I don't care if my good deeds are recognized. I know what I did and I feel good about what I did. I do not need someone to pat my back or thank me.

BUT I don't like getting INSULTED by the one I'm helping.

Don't you think it's very rude to insult people who tried to help you? You can reject with a nice intonation and so what if your status is higher? That doesn't mean that you can look down on other??
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But I do give thanks that I learned something in this matter. I know what is the meaning by too much caring or help will only lead to frustration and it will burnt all the effort that you've helped those who are too egoistic and forever like a frog under the coconut shell ( a Malay saying).
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Anyway, thanks to that matter, my holidays plan are ruined. I'm glad that my parents are always be there for me whenever I was being taken advantages off. Thanks to my besties who are willingly listen to me and gave me lots of advices. Love will not last but family and friends will. Love you all.

Money money money $$$

Since long long time ago, everyone loves money, don't we? Even songs sang it out~! 

Abba's Money Money Money

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ETxmCCsMoD0 

The song is sung by the character of Donna as she explains how hard she has to work for keeping the taverna in order and desires for a more wealthy life.

And even now Jessie J sang about price tag http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMxX-QOV9tI

Lyrically, the song is about Jessie J trying to make the public dance by forgetting about how much money they have.

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Today 13th of August 2012 is the day for all the government workers to rejoice~

It is simply because today is our pay day and last Thursday was our half a month bonus of our basic salary.


But it is time for Malaysian government workers to plan for their financial because the next pay day will be at the end of September. If you didn't plan properly, you might suffer when September starts.


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As for me, I am rejoice with all the Muslims all over the world for the coming Hari Raya Festival. But I am also grateful as I am one of the government workers who received the extra income this month.

But, how do I divide my small income?
I'm buying a car,
I'm paying for insurance(s), internet bills, credit cards debts, car petrol and other expenses.
I'm even planning to visit my brother end of next year and for those who know where my brother is, you know I do need big lump of money to go there.

Time for investment? Time for more savings? Maybe, this is the time for me to face the reality and do financial planning.

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Thanks to my personal financial advisor at home, I'm going to start to do investment and hopefully it will happen like a chinese saying 钱生钱 money grow money~

For those who are low-average income like me, (less than 5 figure monthly) and still less than 30 years old,  maybe it's time for you to plan your financial properly and WISELY for future use.

But in whatever circumstances, be grateful for what you have. Don't be too desperate until you need to cry over spilled milk.

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